My husband wont stand up to his mother.?

o wow that sounds like my husbands mother. what I've learned to do is ignore my MIL I know it sounds bad but honestly I couldn't deal with her anymore. Its a lot healthier for me to not have to deal with her negativeness and her trying to guilt me. Let your husband deal with her its his mother after all. I would stop answering the phone if I was you and take a break from her. You have enough to deal with. Your mother is known of her business either. good luck to you.